Is our whole model of leadership wrong?

My husband and I stumbled into Imago therapy early in our marriage. We were both open to therapy because we knew enough to know what we didn’t know. He came from a divorce, and I came from witnessing parents who were married for 48 years but continually had the same arguments over and over again. We didn’t want to repeat those mistakes.  Imago rewired how I think about communication. It was developed by Harville Hendrix and its premise is that every relationship we enter is an unconscious attempt to resolve something unfinished from our earliest caregivers. So, the person sitting across fro...